Monday, December 19, 2016

A Holiday (Unconditional) Love Letter... Just for you

If there were no words
No way to speak
I would still hear you
If there were no tears
No way to feel inside
I'd still feel for you

All of my life
I have been waiting for
All you give to me
You've opened my eyes
And shown me how to love unselfishly

Dear Wonderful, Absolutely-perfect-just-the-way-you-are, No-need-to-change-a-thing you,

Merry Christmas, Baby.

Let's have no regrets. No looking back.

You did what you thought was right - or the closest thing to "right" of the choices you felt you had.

That was then and this is now.  

Enough of that...let's move on (by all means!) to (drum roll, please...) my Christmas gift to you!

It is my "Book of Positive Aspects" about you.

What is a "Book of Positive Aspects" you might ask?  It is simply this:

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The process is one of Abraham's and is in fact called "The Book of Positive Aspects". Abraham suggests using it to raise our vibration and focus on those positive aspects of people and things we feel good about. I have in fact used it successfully to raise my vibration when someone is irking me or I don't feel too good about them. By focusing on only their positive aspects, what was irking me about them seemed to literally disappear and they began showing up in my reality in a mostly positive way.
  1. Purchase a notebook and write on the cover My Book of Positive Aspects 
  2. At the top of the first page write the name of the thing or person you want to focus on.
  3. Next, ask yourself these questions - What do I like about you? *Why do I love you so much?* What are your positive aspects? - If writing about someone that is irking you right now, the 2nd question may be hard to answer immediately; however, as you begin to focus on the positive in the person your vibration will begin to change and you will reach a place of love.
  4. Begin writing down the thoughts that come to you in response to the questions - do not force them. Write as long as the thoughts come easily and then read and enjoy your own words. 
By focusing on the positive we begin raising our vibration to one of appreciation which is a powerful vibration. The more positive aspects we search for, the more we will find and our relationships with these people will change for the better. The more consistently we practice this, the more dominant the vibration will become and our reality will reflect this.
There are many benefits to this process - you'll feel good doing it, your point of attraction will improve, your relationships will improve and more great things and people will begin showing up in your life.

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When you are appreciating someone, and they are unable to uplift themselves to the level of your vibration, they vibrate right out of your experience. Most people you love will be uplifted by your appreciation to a new level of appreciation and connectedness for themselves.

OK, so here it is.  This is my ACTUAL book.  Not re-written or cleaned up at all.  That's why it's so messy and "dog eared"!  Of course, I had to cross out certain things that were just way too embarrassing and geeky and besides, I don't want you to get too big of a head!

I hope I don't regret this.  DO NOT get too full of yourself!!!

So once I got on a roll, there was SO much (added over quite some time - several months) that it has taken up two full pages so far.  And more things come to mind and the list gets longer every day.

Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly I wanna see you be brave

You can do it!  That's what I just you think this was easy???  Talk about "brave"...if I do say so myself.

BTW...If you're reading this, you ARE on the right track.

One more REALLY, REALLY, VERY IMPORTANT thing to remember:

You heard it here first.  Well, maybe second.

Hmmm...Where have I heard that before?

Merry Christmas With Love,
Your Mermaid